Tuesday, February 14, 2023

2023 Valentine Blog

  Happy Valentine’s Day!


To think that absolutely NOTHING can separate us from God’s love! We are all so blessed!!


In our 2022…

We made many special memories. 

We laughed a lot. 

We cried. 

We spent time alone. 

We spent time with family and friends. 

We made new friends.

We read new books. 

We tried new recipes. 

We exercised more.

We uncluttered, sold or gave away unneeded stuff. 

We learned wonderful new things in scripture.

We saw many answers to prayer.  

Best of all, the Lord and His Word faithfully met each of the needs of our hearts. 

 

As always, we loved spending time with our children and grandchildren. 



Having Nathan and Katie and our four Michigan grandchildren (Caleb 9, Grace 7, Brielle 5, Natalie 4 months) just a block away is such a blessing. Our backyard neighbor let us put a gate on the back of his fence, so now the children (and we adults, too) are just like across-the-street-neighbors since we can dart over to each other’s homes through their backyard in a flash when we want. 





Andy and Chiree and our three little Colorado grandsons (Isaiah almost 5, Micah 3, Benniah 1) were able to come twice this past year, in May and in October, staying two weeks each time. So fun!! We, as well, were able to spend a month with them in Colorado in January of 2022 (and another two months this January and February). 






We have been very encouraged through the ministry of Legacy Coalition - Intentional Christian Grandparenting. Through their resources and conferences, as well as their excellent speakers on their weekly zoom Grand Monday Nights, we as grandparents are given great wisdom for ways to invest in our grandchildren. (For those of you with children still at home, the absolute best parenting course we could recommend to you is through Biblical Parenting University - "Teaching a Heart-Based Approach to Parenting.")

 


Our grandchildren are treasures and loved beyond words. They have our hearts and also keep us in stitches!!





“Out of the Mouths of Babes”


Andy: “Isaiah, thank you for all the help you were for me today.”




Isaiah (age 4): “Daddy, it sure is a good thing God gave you three boys to help with all the work!”

 

(Little does Isaiah know just how much work three little boys make themselves! Ha, Ha!)



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Brielle (age 5): “Mommy, do you have a video of Adam and Eve marrying?”


Katie: “They didn’t have video cameras back then--not even in Jesus’ day.”


Brielle: “Oh, they just had phones?”


Mommy: “Not even phones.”


Brielle: “Did Eve wear a pretty dress?”


Mommy: “Nope.”


Brielle: “What did she wear?”


Katie: “Nothing.”


Brielle, looking horrified: “You mean she was naked?!”


Caleb (age 9) hearing this said: “That’s why there weren’t cameras back then!!




 

My 70th birthday arrived on April 9th. It’s still hard to believe I can be this age when in my mind, I feel 30! 



Jennifer Smith and Bethany Davis, my dear friends from the prison ministry we worked with for several years in Arkansas and Cornerstone Transition Home, flew in for that weekend and helped make for a very special celebration with my family here in Michigan.




My sister, Michelle, was at the airport in Denver ready to fly in also as a surprise but became suddenly sick and had to cancel at the last minute. Gratefully, she recovered well and flew out in October for five days, so we celebrated then and had such a wonderful sister time together.



Some of our extended Bolliger family were able to come to visit that same weekend, so we got to also  enjoy my brother-and-sister-in-law Kenny and Kathy from Missouri, my sister-in-law Connie and niece-and-nephew-in-law Kevin and Julie all from Illinois. 




 In celebration of all the God has done in my 70 years of life, I invited 27 friends and relatives to each write a 2-minute blog of how the Lord has worked in their life. Each writing was such a blessing to read and to share with others. Those 27 short blogs can be read at: aprilbday.blogspot.com. 




 

I spent the summer recovering from a meniscus tear and stress fracture of the tibia, which put me in a wheelchair for a month, followed by a walker and cane the next two months. Jimmy and I had dates several times a week at a warm water therapy pool during this time. He was such a blessing caring for me and taking care of so many household needs that I couldn’t do. (I love my man so much!!) I also ended up with yet another stress fracture on the top of my foot in December, which put me in a boot for eight weeks. I don’t know what I did to cause these fractures, so aging and osteoporosis seem to be the culprit, which has me being much more proactive in some lifestyle changes. 







Jimmy always brings his tools when traveling and did some electrical tweaking at Andy and Chiree's house on our last visit there. Such a hard-working man, even at nearly 75 years old!




Jimmy spent the fall months updating an investment home we purchased in our quaint and quiet neighborhood just two streets over and behind Nathan and Katie’s house. He did such a nice job on all of it!  At Christmas time we rented it to a sweet, young married couple named Caleb and Grace. Since their names match our sweet nine-and-seven-year-old grandchildren, we affectionately call our renters, Mr. Caleb and Miss Grace. He works from home and she works at Life Action/Revive Our Hearts were our Nathan works. We are grateful to have them as our renters and even more grateful to have them as our new friends. 



 

The most special blessing of 2022 was the gift the Lord gave our family of precious Natalie Joy!



In the midst of our deep sorrow in the stillbirth of our grandson, Samuel Ethan in 2021, God was so gracious to add Natalie to our lives. She was born September 29th and is absolutely loved beyond words! The children love carrying her around, meeting her needs and giggling at the sweet faces she makes. (Because they have to take turns holding their baby sister, sometimes the baby dolls fill the arms of those waiting to hold her.)



Nathan and Katie (and all of us grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins) stand in awe with hearts full of gratefulness. Thank you, thank you, Lord for our Natalie!! 






 

God continues to use Samuel’s short life to bring hope and the gospel to others and has opened opportunities for us as family members to help comfort those who have faced a stillborn birth. The 10-minute video of “Samuel’s Story” was aired a week before Natalie’s birth at the True Woman ’22 Conference to thousands of women in Indianapolis and simultaneously translated into several languages and broadcasted around the world. The theme of the conference was “Heaven Rules.” Watch: “Samuel’s Story: A Heaven Rules Story.”  May this  video bring you hope also. 






Below are excerpts from the forward of  Nancy DeMoss Wolgmuth's newest book, Heaven Rules.


The phrase "Heaven rules''originates in the book of Daniel Chapter 4. Nancy takes us on a journey through the Old Testament book of Daniel and points out "Heaven rules" (HR) moments along the way. 


When we find ourselves in frightening circumstances, we often run to "Human Resources" (HR) to help us rather than a better plan of knowing Heaven rules (HR). You will never watch the news quite the same way again once you start to get a sense of what's going on behind those headlines, what God is doing on earth to accomplish His eternal, heavenly purposes...when Heaven is ruling! 


Heaven rules means God is sovereign over everything that touches us...He is ruler over every diagnosis and prognosis, over all incomes and outcomes, over the most daunting challenges as well as the most seemingly details of our lives.


This book can be purchased at Revive Our Hearts or on Amazon. After reading it, you will definitely want to share it with others!


 

We had a Hallmark-looking Christmas. My niece, Rebecca Dellinger, who lives in Hawaii, flew in on Christmas Eve. We had a memorable Christmas morning breakfast at Nathan and Katie's home and a delightful time with Rebecca all week and with our little Michigan family celebrating the birth of our Savior.


 




“Thanks be unto God for His unspeakable gift” …the gift of Himself being born in order to die for our sins that we might have His righteousness upon our trust in Him alone. Hallelujah, what a Savior! “For He has make Him to be sin for us that we might be made the righteousness of God in Him” (II Corinthians 5:21). 

 

A wonderful New Year’s challenge from a friend: “May we love God more this year!”

 

Trusting God daily,

Jim and Ann


P. S. Looking for a resource for your church or ministry to empower you to reach the world with the gospel? "Good News Made Clear" is an 8-week, video-based program that gives you the tools and the confidence to share the Good News. We highly recommend it!






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Monday, February 14, 2022

2022 Valentine Blog

                          May you have a 

      Happy Valentine's Day 

as you bask in God's great love for us!

How precious is your lovingkindness, O God!
                       (Psalm 36:7)

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Gratefulness to the Lord 
for the Year 2021

 


Thank you, Lord, that we can trust you. Thank you, Lord, for your presence in our lives. Thank you, thank you, thank you. How often we are reminded of this truth of scripture in I Thessalonians 5:17, “In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.” 

 

Every year has happenings that bring laughter and happenings that bring tears. We have truly seen this past year that joy and sorrow can co-exist with life and death happening in our family. God is faithful and gave us strength in every happening of our lives that caused us to look to Him. He navigated us through every day and every event. Thank you, Lord.


 





















God blessed us with two beautiful grandsons this past summer. Through their births, we experienced the verse, “The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” (Job 1:21). On June 12th, two days before Nathan and Katie’s little son was due, Katie realized that she hadn’t felt any movement from Samuel Ethan that afternoon. After she was admitted to the hospital, we learned the heart wrenching news that he no longer had a heartbeat. God’s amazing grace carried Nathan and Katie through the next 24 hours as she labored and delivered beautiful, healthy Samuel weighing 8 lb. 10 oz.  who had already been born into the arms of Jesus. Evidently, something had happened to his cord on Saturday. Katie’s parents, her four younger sisters, Jimmy and I and Caleb, Grace and Brielle were all able to go to the hospital and spend almost four hours with him, loving him, crying, and thanking the Lord that we knew he was in heaven. A beautiful funeral was held five days later with over 600 people attending, either in person or virtually through the recorded live stream. Our lives have been forever changed. This was so hard and there have been many tears, but we love the Lord even more and trust Him even more. 



 





Service for Samuel:

 www.mygospelcity.org/memorial


Minute 20:51: Obituary 

                           Encouragement to family

                           Letter written to Samuel 

Minute 43:37: Photo Montage 

Minute 56:00: Gospel Presentation 

 


                                "First Sight" 

            Drawn by Samuel's Grandma Debbie

 




We have been reminded over and over this past year of the frailty of our lives. Besides our little Samuel, we had eighteen other loved ones (friends and family) pass away. They all had trusted Christ as their Savior, so we know they are in heaven and that we will see them again, but, oh, how our hearts have grieved missing them. We have cried a lot of tears with lots of understanding friends coming alongside us. We don’t grieve, though, without hope because of Christ! “Jesus said unto her, I am the resurrection and the life: he that believes in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live” (John 11:25). Hallelujah! May we be found faithful sharing the most important message and decision in the world!! And, may we wrap our arms of love around you who are reading this blog, as each one has most likely gone through grieving times yourself this year. We care. God understands your tears and so do we. "The Lord is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart" (Psalm 34:18).


 



A few days after the funeral, we drove to Denver as Chiree and Andy’s baby boy was due any day. She ended up being two weeks late. On July 11th, Benniah John (Ben) was born by emergency C-section that revealed a small, unhealthy placenta and unhealthy umbilical cord. We are so grateful to the Lord that though Ben was small (6 lb. 7 oz.), he was healthy and is continuing to thrive. We love him dearly. 



 

Toward the end of July, Nathan, Katie, and the children set out for the long drive to Denver to stay for two weeks. We all needed to be together. We made special memories, even in the midst of several tender moments of tears. We stayed for two months in order to help Chiree recover well from her surgery. Truly, we can testify that sorrow and joy can co-exist, as we love these precious babies…one in heaven and one on earth. God's love and His grace has been so evident to us each and every day. 









Jimmy and I have enjoyed being able to fully embrace our new life here in Michigan as we journey through our 43rd year of marriage. So thankful to be with each other every day making great memories, laughing, praying, sharing with others what God is teaching us and sometimes cooking together! We have loved our new church, Bertrand Bible Church and our wonderful “Neighborhood-Off-Walton-Road” friends. We have time daily with Nathan, Katie, Caleb (8), Grace (6) and Brielle (4) who are just one block over, as well as four different months, we spent in Colorado throughout this past year to be with Andy, Chiree, Isaiah (3), Micah (2) and Ben (7 months). All these things truly brought us much joy. 











This past year we have been blessed by Legacy Coalition (an intentional Christian grandparenting ministry) through listening to incredible messages in a weekly webinar entitled, Grand Monday Nights. These webinars have given us tools for how we can better invest into the lives of our grandchildren. We also were able to attend the Grandparenting Summit in Winona Lake, Indiana, in October, which was live streamed throughout the nation that over 5,000 grandparents attended. Such a blessed time!! If your church doesn’t have a grandparenting ministry yet, would you consider sharing this with them? Also, there is a wealth of grandparenting resources on their website. This is such a vital ministry helping grandparents with grandchildren of all ages! We are very thankful the Lord has given us the health and the ability to invest in each of our grandchildren and to pray fervently for them. We love them and their parents so much!! 


 

 

 

Revive our Hearts continues to be such a great source of encouragement and ministry that equips me and women all over the world. The True Woman ‘22 conference in Indianapolis is September 22-24 with the theme of “Heaven Rules.” Also, each Monday morning the podcast, Grounded, airs. This unique program offers a weekly infusion of a hope-filled look at the headlines, insightful interviews with people from around the globe, and an opportunity to open God’s Word with others. It is excellent and something I never miss listening to each week. Check it out and share it with others!

 

A huge blessing in our life came last January when we received an offer on our Neosho home that we lived in six years previously that was attached to the farm property. The Lord gave us the desire of our hearts for the sale of this house to be to the right people just as He did for the sale of the farmhouse and land to our wonderful friends, Jack and Judy in 2020 (as shared in last year’s blog). Ron, a retired Baptist pastor from Illinois, and his wife, Donna, not only loved and purchased our home but have become dear, dear friends of ours, too. The fellowship we have enjoyed through the year by mail, email and visits with them have been treasured. Thank you, Lord, for Ron and Donna and for Jack and Judy loving the place where our family memories were made for many, many years and for the precious new friendships we have with all four of them! Only God could do this!





 

OUR TRAVELS...


On our way to Denver in June, we had a great time in Kansas City at a reunion with all of Jimmy’s siblings and several other extended Bollinger family members and children. (I love this family I married into!!) We met at his nephew and wife’s home, Matt and Amy, on the property of Cider Hill Family Orchard. Check it out; it’s an awesome place to plan an event!


Bollinger siblings youngest to oldest: Kenny, Patty, Connie, Jimmy, Kay and Launny



 

Then all of us gals: Connie, Ann, Jo, Kathy, Kay and Patty



We took a two-week trip during the end of October and into November to Neosho for my dear cousin Roy’s funeral (age 96) and saw many special relatives there, as well as a few Neosho and Joplin friends, too. We so wished we could have seen everyone…hopefully, that will happen on our next trips there again. On the way to Roy’s funeral, we stopped and visited with friends, missionaries and relatives in Arkansas and northern Texas. We came home so refreshed by the fellowship we had with each one of them!


Jennifer Smith, Bethany Davis, and Lynn Leonard 

Directors with  Cornerstone Transitional Home 

for ex-felons in Newport, Arkansas




 Jimmy’s brother and sister-in-law, Launny & Jo

 Quitman, Texas 

(In the background is their bear carved from a tree that had to be cut down...so cool!)



 Joellen and Larry Wright 

Directors at Father Heart 

Unwed mother’s home through 

Youth with a Mission (YWAM)

Tyler, Texas




Driving home, we stopped to connect with four of my maternal cousins. So fun! 


Cousins Candi & Randy in Osceola, Missouri



Cousins LeRoy & Jacquie in Versailles, Missouri


 

The whole two weeks of traveling were peak times for the fall colors…BEAUTIFUL!! God paints gorgeous pictures! 


The last two weeks of December and the first two weeks of January, we were in Denver with  our family and extended family there. We had a delightful time with all of them! 



My niece, Rachel and her hubby, Brad, 
and their three boys, Coen, Casen and EJ








Jimmy's sister and brother-in-law, Kay and Dean


Jimmy's nephew and wife, Gary and Kathy







Michelle treated me to the Candlelight Theatre seeing the Sound of Music...such a special sister evening!! (We missed seeing Dan during the holidays as he was preparing for knee surgery. We needed to do all we could to keep him from any "bugs" going around! He's recovering now and doing well.)




OUR VISITORS...


In the spring and in the fall, we thoroughly enjoyed visits here in Michigan from friends and family and missionary friends. What a blessing it was to have time with all of them that are so dear to us!

 


Jon and Peggy Sperling 

Make It Clear Ministries

Loveland, Colorado

                                 

 


 

Yankee Arnold

Yankee Arnold Ministries

Tampa, Florida

                    





 

Paula Barnds

Biblical Ministries Worldwide

San Antonio, TX











Rose, Robert and Ryan Jeffery

Neosho, Missouri



Matt and Ashley Johnson

Springfield, Missouri           


Debby Greer and Mandy Pollack 

St. Joseph, Missouri and San Antonio, Texas






















Dan Greer -  Easton, Kansas

Matt Johnson - Springfield, Missouri

 



 

















Jimmy’s nephew and his wife and daughter, Kevin, Julie and Zoe and his sister Connie and sister and brother-in-law, Patty and Nat

Decateur, Illinois and Topeka, Kansas






How grateful we are that eternal life in heaven as God’s child is a free gift by faith alone in Christ alone for what He did for us on the cross, paying for all our sins and raising from the dead as our living Savior. This truly is the most important news we can share with everyone we meet who needs the Savior. One of the most valuable things we can give our children and grandchildren is to tell the story to them of how we came to know Christ as our Savior. We shared about this in our last year’s blog with our testimonies that we gave to our family and put in our safe with other important papers in life. If you haven’t shared your salvation story with your loved ones yet, do consider doing this, as well as giving them the written version of it. It’s a priceless gift!



Happy Valentine’s Day celebrating the love of God and your love for others!


Jim & Ann





 

P.S. These books offer great encouragement and help and the songs minister to hurting hearts:

 

 

You Can Trust God to Write Your Story – by Robert and Nancy Wolgemuth

The marvel of this book is that it weaves together dozens of real-life stories both from scripture and from people today who are in the midst of confusion and hurt as they learn to trust God as He writes their story. Ever engaging throughout, you won’t want to put it down. 

 

Between Life and Death: A Gospel-Centered Guide to End-of-Life Medical Care – by Kathryn Butler, MD

This book offers a distinctly Christian guide to end-of-life care. It equips you by explaining common medical jargon, exploring biblical principles that connect to common medical situations, and offering guidance for making critical decisions. You will find the medical knowledge and scriptural wisdom you need to navigate this painful and confusing process with clarity, peace, and discernment.


Hope in the Dark – Finding hope in uncertain times (inspirational writings & beautiful photography) 

by Hospice Chaplain, Bart Larson


 

Tear Soup – A Recipe for Healing After Loss

by Pat Schweibert and Chuck DeKlyen 

 

Grieving the Loss of Someone You Love 

by Robert Mitsch and Lynn Brookside 

 

Journeying Through Grief – Four booklets for 

the first year after a loss - Stephen Ministries


The Moon Is Always Round - A children's book using the imagery of the moon to explain to children that God's goodness is always present


Hurting Forward - A excellent blog by Tim Grissom that gives help for the grieving, the disappointed and those who offer comfort 


"Your Ways Are Higher Than Mine"

sung by The Collingsworth Family


"You Are Always Good"

sung by the Hamilton Family


 

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For a smile: :-) 


Here are some statements that our grandchildren said lately and pictures that show their spunkiness.

 

Isaiah (age 3) says to Micah (age 2)…

“Micah, you look like a 90’s kid with your hair like that!”

 

Watching the football championships…

Grace (age 6): “Look! They are in a cuddle again!”

Nathan: “That’s called a huddle.”